So, as I’m doing the dishes

IMG_20170630_080547Or Aha! Moments happen when they happen.
My Sweetie and I, being just us two, share household duties. Sometimes the balance shifts here, or there depending on our needs and what’s going on in our lives. Our general rule is whoever cooks doesn’t have to do the dishes. As you can imagine this isn’t always the case, we make exceptions for travel, working  super long hours, being sick, and sometimes just because.

Well my Sweetie made a totally fab breakfast of French toast, Bacon, and COFFEE. He was all set to do the dishes but I stepped in. As the last pot got all soaped up, and sparkly clean all of the sudden this one parable, made sense in a new way.

The Workers in the Vineyard

“The kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out at dawn to hire laborers for his vineyard. After agreeing with them for the usual daily wage, he sent them into his vineyard. Going out about nine o’clock, he saw others standing idle in the marketplace, and he said to them, ‘You too go into my vineyard, and I will give you what is just.’ 5So they went off. [And] he went out again around noon, and around three o’clock, and did likewise. Going out about five o’clock, he found others standing around, and said to them, ‘Why do you stand here idle all day?’ They answered, ‘Because no one has hired us.’ He said to them, ‘You too go into my vineyard.’ When it was evening the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, ‘Summon the laborers and give them their pay, beginning with the last and ending with the first.’ When those who had started about five o’clock came, each received the usual daily wage. So when the first came, they thought that they would receive more, but each of them also got the usual wage. And on receiving it they grumbled against the landowner, saying,
‘These last ones worked only one hour, and you have made them equal to us, who bore the day’s burden and the heat.’
He said to one of them in reply, ‘My friend, I am not cheating you.* Did you not agree with me for the usual daily wage? Take what is yours and go. What if I wish to give this last one the same as you? [Or] am I not free to do as I wish with my own money? Are you envious because I am generous?’ 
Thus, the last will be first, and the first will be last.”  – Matthew 20

mum-single-closedThis passage of the Gospel is so very rich. One can spend time thinking really highly of the landowner for his generosity. One can spend time thinking about what a great crop year that was. One can spend time wondering how it is that these folks weren’t hired by the end of the day. One can spend time contemplating one’s own navel wondering where we “fit” in the story and what we have to learn. Why did the guys who started the day grumble about doing what they agreed to? Why didn’t the landowner give them more?

So here I am, doing dishes, and I realized that, in this case, the landowner did what he said he would do. He paid exactly what they agreed to at the beginning of the day, no more, no less. The workers who started at the end of the day were surprised to get he full days pay, figuring they would get less because they only worked one hour give/take.

The landowner rightly said that he’s free to do as he wishes with his money. Heck, he could have gone on a two week bender and squandered it all, knowing he’d have more money after the harvest, promising to pay the workers later. Because everyone can have a place to live, and eat dinner on speculative work. I get why the workers who did most of the work grumbled. I get why the workers who started at the end of the day were delighted. I get why the landowner chose generosity.

Even the landowners of this day and age make choices to work with, not work with, change the rules of working with whomever is in their employ in one way or another. Some will be generous. Some won’t. Some will fulfill their promises. Some won’t. It’s their choice.

botanical gardens with Misty 136The workers of this day and age make choices too…some will do the work, some won’t, some will be hired later in the “day” than the one’s who have been working all day. Some workers will do a job half-assed, some will go above and beyond. Workers have as many choices now, as the landowners do. In some sense the workers of today own a little bit of land. The larger landowners want that too. Because – maybe they can help that bit of land be more productive; or it can be squandered.

The whole point of this is as a worker be as generous as possible, don’t grumble about what the landowner is doing. As a landowner, be as generous as possible, the people you’re working with have bills to pay, and sometimes like to eat.

There have been moments when I have been that generous worker, and the experience has been most unpleasant. There are moments when I’ve not been that generous worker and well, we all know how that can go. I am firmly committed to being as generous as possible. As a person I do have some limits, and when those limits have been reached there is a possibility of extending those limits.

IMG_20170505_151540While doing the dishes I realized that the Crux of this is pride, and letting go of pride – which forms, and holds onto unreasonable expectations of others, including workers, or landowners.  Letting go of pride and envy we are then free to experience deeply the Joy of the Lord, and the Freedom God intends for us to have.

These realizations also puts several “No’s” I’ve received this year into perspective in a whole new way. And now, creative brain is kicking into high gear doing some thinking about how to approach what comes next. It’s kind of cool.

God bless,


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